You’re just one click away from reading this article over at Lou Abbott’s MLM – The Whole Truth!

It’s funny …

Bob and Anna Bassett
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Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter passed on this excellent story to explain why your prospects don’t believe they can start their own part-time network marketing business.

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I’m sure you have heard prospects say, “Oh, that will never work.”

Why do your prospects automatically say this when presented with a business opportunity?  Because they have been conditioned by:

• Their parents who told them to get a good job to succeed in life.
• Their school teachers who told them to get good grades so that they can get a worthwhile career job.
• Their friends who told them that they should just fit in with everyone else.
• The newspaper and television reporters who have full-time jobs.

Many subscribers have asked me to print the ‘ape story’ that I use to explain this phenomenon to prospects.  Here it is.

Start with a cage containing five apes.  In the cage, hang a banana on a string and put stairs under it.  Before long, an ape will go to the stairs and start to climb towards the banana.  As soon as he touches the stairs, spray all of the apes with cold water.

After a while, another ape makes an attempt with the same result – all the apes are sprayed with cold water.

Turn off the cold water.

Later, if another ape tries to climb the stairs, the other apes will try to prevent it, even though no water sprays them.

Now, remove one ape from the cage and replace it with a new ape.  The new ape sees the banana and wants to climb the stairs.  To his horror, all of the other apes attack him.  After another attempt and attack, the ape knows that if he tries to climb the stairs, he will be assaulted.

Next, remove another of the original five apes and replace it with a new ape.  The new ape goes to the stairs and is attacked.  The previous new ape takes part in the punishment with enthusiasm.  Again, replace a third original ape with a new one.  The new one makes it to the stairs and is attacked as well.

Two of the four apes that beat him have no idea why they were not permitted to climb the stairs, or why they are participating in the beating of the newest ape.

After replacing the fourth and fifth original apes, all the original apes that were sprayed with cold water have been replaced.

Nevertheless, no ape ever again approaches the stairs.  Why not?

“Because that’s the way it’s always been around here.”

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If you want to learn how to change your prospects’ belief in themselves and their ability, you’ll need some skills.  Big Al has one magic sentence that starts it all:

Most people do network marketing every day, but just don’t get paid for it.

This one sentence speaks directy to the subconscious, gets past at least three objections, and can lead to your prospect getting excited and wanting to join.  To learn more about how Big Al uses this magic sentence, listen to How To Quickly Build Your Network Marketing Organization.  Details can be found at BigAlSkills.com.

Bob and Anna Bassett
519-371-1028
bobandanna@togethertothetop.com
Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter’s 25 MLM Skills
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Here’s another funny from Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter.  He always has a big lesson between the laughs …

“Are you having trouble getting prospects to believe you? Maybe more rapport would fix this.  Watch this video to see how far you can go with rapport. Unbelievable!”

If you’d like to learn how to build rapport with your prospects so they believe the good things you say, start here with How To Create Instant Rapport With Your MLM Prospects – Technique #1 From Big Al.

If you can’t wait, go get The Complete Big Al Library.  Your prospects and your team and your wallets will thank you!

Bob and Anna Bassett
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You’re just one click away. See this article Beware The BMW Burden over at Lou Abbott’s MLM – The Whole Truth!

“Bad advertising!  Are your business cards, website, and Facebook page killing your chances with prospects? Do you leave a bad first impression?

Here are 10 pictures of bad or unimaginative advertising from the real world …

1.  This is an entrance sign to a park in the Czech Republic.  Do you get a negative first impression?  If we want to affect our prospects positively, let’s start with what we can do, not what we can’t do.

2.  The math wizard that put up this sign probably shouldn’t be managing this convenience store.  We want to make sure our offers are accurate, and our offers should have a compelling benefit to the prospect.

3.  Would you feel secure if this was the level of security at your airport?  Asking gun owners to voluntarily notify airline security is … underwhelming.  I think this could have been worded much better.

4.  While this advertising might be accurate, it certainly does not leave a positive feeling among shoppers.  Sort of puts this shopping experience in a negative light.  Although, I did think it was funny.

5.  While this sign notifies parents of an impending negative experience, it is a lot more positive than the previous sign.  Again, I thought it was funny, but it does make you think that the owners don’t like children.

6.  Feel crap?  This isn’t exactly a message of hope. This sign was on the back of the taxi driver in Scotland. I would have hoped for a more positive or uplifting message for depressed people.

7.  So the owners got together and said, “Let’s think up a name for our store.”  And this is what they came up with? Well, it is descriptive, but so unimaginative. I bet you could come up with a much better name for their marketing.

8.  Pig organ soup may be a local favorite, but this is in a tourist area.  “Gourmet Pork Soup” or any other name might have made it more appealing to American tourists.

9.  Here is another shop from the same tourist area.  “Eat Frog” doesn’t conjure up a gourmet dining experience.  As you notice, there is not a long line at their counter.

10.  This grand opening is incorrectly named “Great Opening,” but that isn’t the problem.  They make it appear to the public that no one has ever bought from them.  We want to use social proof when we can, and give the impression that people love to buy from us, and buy from us often.

Want to be a better network marketer?  Join us in our learning community BigAlTraining.com.”

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Or, if you are a leader, you may want all the skills you need right now.  If you are ready to move ahead immediately, you’ll want to have Big Al’s Complete Library.

Bob and Anna Bassett
519-371-1028
bobandanna@togethertothetop.com
Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter’s 25 MLM Skills
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You’re just one click away. See this article over at Lou Abbott’s MLM – The Whole Truth!

You don’t have to spend more than a few minutes on InYourFacebook or LinkedIn to hear drivel and dreck and outright moronic things that turn everyone off and ensure that no one will ever do business with you.

Here are some stupid phrases that you should NEVER use anywhere.  Ever.  This is a list we made in just seven days of collecting bull from the barrage by frenzied firehosers:

1. No competition!
2. The Only Networking Company In The World Conquering New $100 Billion Dollar Market!
3. People are already making $15,000.00 a month.
4. Major heads up!  You probably have never even heard about this before (its that GOOD).
   
5. It’s a new website that’s already got over 5,000 people making $70 Every 60 Seconds!  How does making $70 EVERY 60 Seconds sound to you?
   
6. Watch THIS!!!!
7. After you go to the link above, you will be able to tap into something that is FREE until Tomorrow.  Just make sure you visit and grandfather yourself in before tomorrow.  Don’t miss out.
   
8. THE FEEDING FRENZY OF 2013!  Call me today and see what the frenzy is all about.
   
9. We can’t sleep at night!  Will you start losing sleep over it like we were?
10. It was like a major slap upside the head. So we decided to “slap” a few other people.
11. This is red hot, a hands down winner.
12. End of the Line for Home Business as Usual!??
13. Joining this opportunity is a no brainer.
14. Fat Cats, you can either join this thing now with your organization or later under it!
15. The fact is, it’s not even an option for anyone to just blow this off. That would be financial suicide.
16. Almost every major corporation in the world is already involved with this company.
17. If you can’t beat ‘em you better join ‘em, or suffer the consequences.  We urge you not to ignore any of this.  That would most certainly injure you financially.  Join this company or you are finished.
    
18. This is just the tip of the iceberg.  Don’t miss out on this goldmine.
    
19. The most spectacular opportunity you have ever seen and … The Big Money!
20. A stunning turn of events – the first time in modern history.
    
21. Only a limited number of business partners will be allowed to enter the ground floor phase of this opportunity.
22. This thing is so far off in a class by itself that we’re not even sure what to call it!
23. This exotic European giant is forever going to change the face of this industry.
24. Risk free URGENT Game Changer!
25. Opportunity of a lifetime for those who join, and a home business death knell for those who don’t.
26. Timming is important for the new zeek which beeb offshore. [wha?]
    
27. Of course it is legitimate.
28. It is free in the prelunch [sic] time, of course it isn’t good if the offer still free for ever!
29. It’s free to sign up Free to sign up others.  You can earn without refer others.
30. It’s offshore registered company so secure from unfair shut down issues.
31. You can earn without a downline by giving away free samples.
32. This new program is spreading online very quickly that the co-founder is already planning to put the limit on the number of founding members.
33. Better hurry up before they shut it down.
34. 200% commissions!
35. Automated Success!  The team does the work & you get paid.
36. Make around $98,437.48 a month & $1,181,249,78.00 (that’s well over $1M) a year!
37. As seen on ABC, CNN and CBS NEWS!  Endorsed by Oprah and Dr. Oz!
    
38. No More Selling, No More Prospecting, No More Phone Calls, No More Meetings, No More Parties, No Experience Needed, No More Autoships, No More Rejection, No More EMPTY Bank Accounts!
39. 15000 joined in the first 48 hours.  If the link don’t work today it is because they are migrating to a larger server.
40. Voted #1 Marketing System in 2012.
41. Simply process 10 emails per day and earn $150 per day.
42. Why does Everyone absolutely Love This.
43. We are capitalizing on the shape of the economy.  Low low price point!
44. World’s Most Powerful PENNY MATRIX Included!
45. Explode your income!
46. This will blow every other program away!
47. Ground Level Opportunity!
48. THE NUMBER ONE OPPORTUNITY IN THE WORLD TODAY.
49. A free no fee club whose purpose is to provide total global freedom in every way you could possibly define the word freedom to all human beings.
50. Now I know you’ve been anxiously waiting to get on one of my private webinars, where I reveal all of my ninja methods and strategies.  With that said, I am about to unveil my hidden Money Effect that has caused me to have so much duplication in my teams and made me the top recruiter in my primary the last 2 months, along with having unheard of conversions in all my offers.  I’ve cracked the code.
    
51. The big dogs from all of the major companies such as Amway, and many more of the MLM companies out there are moving to us like a stampede of bulls because they know this is the one and ONLY big thing right now.
52. I found a way to “get even” with the financial market!
    
53. I’m going to show you how to use the law of ‘Scarcity’ to become great in your business.
54. An Error In The Internet Has Been Found So Monopolize On It To Make Money.
55. CASH. And FAST.  Who doesn’t want to earn an extra $500-1000 whenever they feel like it?
56. This dude is just crazy, he will teach you how you can make up to $87 every minute! No string attached and zero risk for you! and the best fact, its 100% free.  Check it out before it runs out!
57. This revolutionary program is an overlay of all others, removing all the traditional stall points for new distributors.  It’s a pure model marketing initiative, a trifecta plan for the person of today.  This undergirding layered approach will be a historic build despite low engagement levels – guaranteed no risk with a multifaceted income lead, product lead campaign.  [huh?]

Have you read or heard any good ones lately?  Please add them in the comment section below.  Thanks!

That’s a good list of what NOT to say.  If you’d like to learn WHAT to say, you might want to learn some ice breakers and opening sentences that put your prospects at ease and don’t make you look foolish or desperate. 

Big Al is a master at rejection free prospecting, and you can learn all the skills he teaches in The Big Al Complete Library.  For a free list of 25 Essential Skills for Networkers, visit Big Al Skills.

Bob and Anna Bassett
519-371-1028
bobandanna@togethertothetop.com
Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter’s 25 MLM Skills
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Listening to Stephen R. Covey’s “The Eighth Habit” has been a world changer for us.  Here is his opinion of tackling too many things at once:

“Discipline One:  Focus on the wildly important.

There is a key principle that many fail to understand about focusing and organization.  People are naturally wired to focus on only one thing at a time, or at best, very few with excellence.

Suppose you have an 80% chance of achieving any particular goal with excellence.  Add a second goal to that first goal and research shows your chance of achieving both goals drops to 64%.

Keep adding goals and the probability of achieving them plunges steeply.  Juggle five goals at once, for example, and you only have a 33% chance of actually getting excellent results on all of them.

How vital it is, then, to focus diligently and intensely on only a few crucial goals.”

In our article The Dog Who Chases Two Rabbits (Goes Hungry and Looks Silly While Starving), we explain that if you try to build two MLM businesses at the same time, your success rate and credibility are reduced to 50%.

Networkers often justify their many businesses by quoting Robert Kiyosaki‘s endorsement of multiple streams of income.  We do not believe that he ever advised working two similar businesses.  Rather, he advises working a traditional or MLM business and adding another stream later, like real estate, which would not compete with your primary and public first choice.

Would you open a Ford dealership and a GM dealership in the same town?  Not likely.

Here’s an article by Todd R. Tresidder at FinancialMentor.com that puts things into perspective:  Multiple Streams Of Income – Truth Revealed

And you’ll enjoy the humorous take on “Multiple Streams of Outgo” in Chapter 10 of ‘Success In Ten Steps’ by Michael Dlouhy.  This book was our first MLM world changer.  We know it can do the same for you and your business.  Once you read or listen to it, please let us know how it helped!

Thanks from
Bob and Anna Bassett
519-371-1028
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Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter’s 25 MLM Skills
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Another great tip from Tom ‘Big Al’ Schreiter …

“If prospects don’t have a problem, or don’t want to fix their problem, we don’t have a business.”

For example, do you want to own a restaurant when no one ever gets hungry?  Or how good would your restaurant business be if people didn’t know they were hungry?

Your network marketing business is easy when you have lots of hungry prospects who want to fix their problems.

So how do you find these hungry prospects?

You create them.

You don’t create hungry prospects by talking at them.  You create hungry prospects by listening to them.

Of course we don’t want to listen to hours of their personal drama, so we can guide the conversation by asking them a special question.

Here’s a list of starter questions that can turn ordinary people into hungry prospects – some cool ‘negative’ things you can say to prospects to help them take action.  Prospects will commit to action more easily if they are avoiding something negative.

1. Are you okay with never taking a long holiday until you are 65 years old and too old to enjoy it?
2. How does it feel on Sunday night knowing that we have five days ahead of waking up early and commuting?
3. Imagine what it would be like to keep working five and six days a week for the rest of our lives.
4. Every day don’t you feel like taking a nap at 2 PM because we end up doing the same boring stuff day after day after day?
5. Every time that alarm clock goes off, I say to myself: “I hate my job.”
6. We didn’t go to school to become professional commuters wasting hours every day fighting traffic.
7. Groveling and begging for a pay raise is demeaning.
8. You know we are going to die as a worker bee unless we do something about it.
9. At least rats get cheese at the end of the maze.
10. Prison cells are bigger than the cubicles we get at work.
11. This is a stupid 50/50 plan. Fifty weeks for them, two weeks for us.
12. Unless there is reincarnation, we are doomed unless we do something different now.
13. Don’t you also get stressed to see our lives slowly slip away while we work for someone else?
14. You know, if we work really hard, then our boss will have a big house for his retirement.
15. How many more days of our remaining lives do we want to work on a job that we have no passion for?
16. We know how our current profession will leave us: old and broke.
17. What do you think will happen next year if you decide not to make any changes this year?

I hope you enjoyed these 17 starter ideas. Learn the 25 basic skills of network marketing and you can change your life for 2013, change your career.”

If you’d like to have your own free list of the 25 basic MLM Skills, visit BigAlSkills.com.  If you’d like to get started right away, you’ll want the complete Big Al Library.

Bob and Anna Bassett
519-371-1028
bobandanna@togethertothetop.com
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You’re just one click away. See this article over at Lou Abbott’s MLM – The Whole Truth!